Are you 21+ with no relationship experience? Never been on a date or approached by a guy you actually like?
Sometimes it may seem like you’re the only girl in the world who never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, or been on a date. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Sometimes, it seems like it’s impossible to have a platonic relationship with a guy. Feeling intimidated or shy around a guy is a natural emotion, but eliminating these feelings is easier said than done. You may feel like guys overlook the good girls for the easy score, which is true in some instances. It’s not fair, but that’s just how the cookie crumbles, but you don’t have to accept that. There are good guys that you may think are cool, but one of three things happen: 1) They’re like a brother/best friend to you 2) They’re taken or 3) Both.
Being your own woman should always come first, but everyone gets lonely sometimes. It’s Fall now, the weather is changing, and everybody seems to be ‘boo’d up’ except for you. I know it’s a bummer, but focusing on yourself and waiting for the right guy to come your way is key because you won’t achieve anything if you rush it.
So here’s a word of encouragement Clutchettes:
Take your time, don’t rush. Continue to be yourself, strive to be the best you can be at everything you do, remain genuine, and eventually you’ll find someone who appreciates all you have to offer. Remember, there are tons of girls out there just like you so you’re not alone.