You’ve deleted your Facebook relationship status, untagged the pictures the two of you took on vacation, and erased every trace of his memory from you place. In the heat of the moment, you’ve decided that the best way to get over your ex is to rip the band aid off of your heart and just deal with the pain, quickly, so you can move on.

After you’ve finally gotten to a place where you can hear his name without freaking out, you feel accomplished. Like you’ve finally moved on…but then it happens. Your ex calls saying he misses you, and he wants you back…as his friend.

The other day a friend of mine asked if she should be friends with her ex. They went through a very difficult, emotional break-up, and after nearly a year, he came back asking to re-friend her on Facebook. She felt it was a dangerous proposition, a slippery slope.

Although his intentions may have been to truly have his friend back, I know my girl. One day she’ll reminisce about their relationship—perhaps a song will come on that reminds her of him, or maybe she’ll glace at his picture—and she’ll be right back to the summer of 2010 when their break-up was fresh and the pain was almost unbearable.

Ultimately she turned down his offer for friendship, but it got me to thinking. I’ve seen some former couples roll right into friendship after the relationship didn’t work out, while others can’t even be in the same room together.

Why can some couples be friends after a break-up, while others can’t even utter their ex’s name?

But, what about you Clutchettes and Gents…are you still friends with your ex?


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  • Emma Russell

    I saw Nadezhda Vyacheslav testimony on how she got that guy to love her as she did him.Though i don’t know her, i believed her cos she said Mutton Osun a spell caster help her seen it happen. I didn’t believe her cos she used a spell i believed her cos she made mention of a mutual spell caster i know of that is mutton Osun. I have also see a lot of testimony about his work on the the internet on blog pages and so on. I literally took a lip of faith to contact him and it turn out that it paid off. In my own case i didn’t ask that him to make anyone fall in love with me or ask that my cheating wife comes back. This time i was at fault i messed up.Will really like to say it was an honest mistake or a few hours or days of weakness but then i will be insulting my wife and the love i feel for her. I was in full control of what i was doing i had the choice not to cheat but i still did. She didn’t find out by herself i told hoping if i told her how sorry i am and how much i still love and want to be with her despite my betray she will forgive completely. It was the biggest mistake of my life maybe i should not have told her, i guess she would have still found out if she didn’t catch me then i bet the other lady would have told her what was going on to destroy what me and my wife had. It was obvious my betray really hurt her i could she it in her eye and i was really sorry. That is why i wasn’t so surprise when she asked that we go our separate ways. There and then i realized that i was following the part that ruined my life and my family. I literally lead four month of my life in misery. I have never felt like i needed her like i had felt begging was not an option nothing was an option cos she was gone. It was right about that time Mutton Osun came into the picture or when i asked that he help me get my wife to love as she did before. I was able to provide the items he asked that i get for the spell and send then down to him. Like Nadezhda Vyacheslav said “the spell does become effective at once that ” she was right also cos just after i did what Mutton Osun asked me to do with what he sent me, it took 7 days before anything happened i even thought for a minute that i had met a fake spell caster but in the end i am happy with my wife again. We going to be renewing our vows on the 20th of September. I was on the edge of become a walking dead a woman with nothing to live for thank my star Mutton Osun helped. I will also leave his contact for those who thing he can help them { [email protected] }