Comments on: 30 Rocks?

By: Mr. Hardy

Mr. Hardy — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 05:39:45 +0000

30 just a # but hey i’m in my 20’s

By: nika marie

nika marie — Thu, 21 May 2009 07:27:00 +0000

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

30 DOES ROCK I’M LOVING IT NOW. AT FIRST I CRIED NOW I’M LOVING IT ABOUT TO HIT THAT BE 31 LATER IN THE YEAR ;)

By: Carren

Carren — Wed, 20 May 2009 17:03:53 +0000

I turn 30 in a couple of months and I all too much relate. But, I am happy to start another chapter in my life.

By: Kwana of the good District

Kwana of the good District — Wed, 20 May 2009 16:55:04 +0000

I will be 35 next month, and didn’t stress about turning 30 or any other age.
Matter fact as a woman I always looked forward to this chic, sophistcated decade.
I know its cause I trust the LORD, knowing I am where I am suppose to be according to a higher poweres plan not mine. I don’t compare myself to others cause everybodies life path is diff, altho you should have a lil bit of sense by 30+ alot don’t tho LOL

…….Iolastar great advice and I feel you I too am without a husband and children to date but we are still blessed right where we are and if it is or isn’t part of the LORD plans for our lives what will be will be, either way I’m FLyyy, and getting flyyyer still darling, regardless!!

By: Elle Tee

Elle Tee — Wed, 20 May 2009 01:35:40 +0000

I am turning 30 in September and I feel you girl! i worked through the same fear a couple of years ago by realizing there is always going to be “something else”. I have the husband…now I need the house. Have the house…now I want the 2.5 kids. So on and so on, so I focus on the blessing of each day and each moment. So I don’t have the husband, the house, or the kids yet…I have me, I have my family and friends, and I have God’s love. So indulge yourself and relish in each moment like its the last…I do and it feels great!

By: Fatimah

Fatimah — Tue, 19 May 2009 20:39:24 +0000

I turned 27 yesterday and leading up to it could only think about turning 30 in 3 years! But when all the b-day luv was pouring in I started to realize that one huge mistake we make is thinking about everything we DON’T have rather than everything we DO. Let’s value our health, love(s), family, friends, experience, and hopefully some wicked vacations. If you feel great then you are great, regardless of the age we continually allow ourselves to be defined by!

By: Nikia

Nikia — Tue, 19 May 2009 20:30:37 +0000

I’m 26 but like a previous clutch article, I suffered a quarter century semi meltdown…..I too felt like more things should have been accomplished by 25…but as another poster said, often times we compare our achievements to others and expect to have the same things at the same time as the next…that way of thinking is unhealthy….not to mention putting time limits on everything is too….it’ll set yourself up for failure most times….I prefer to let things happen naturally and just continue to be proactive in making sure I meet my goals (all the while setting realistic time frames to achieve them)…one of my favorite quotes is “I move to the beat of my own drum”….

By: Brandi

Brandi — Tue, 19 May 2009 17:56:31 +0000

Okay, I needed to read this before I turned 30 and then maybe I would have been at peace with departing my 20’s. Anywho since 31 is banging at my front door and about to send me a friendly reminder text message, I guess I can make peace with being “in” my thirties…. Oh and welcome to CLUB! PS: I heard, through the grapevine of course, that 30 is the new 10, and 40 is the new 20, but you ain’t heard that from me!

By: Cheryl

Cheryl — Tue, 19 May 2009 17:30:22 +0000

Amen to that sista! I am 28 and those same thoughts run thru my mind. Btw, the book “20 Something 20 Everything” speaks on this very subject. It’s an interesting read. Great article too. I am an aspiring writer/editor myself. Keep the faith! Our dreams will come true all in God’s time. Blessings. Cheryl

By: Soul Cry

Soul Cry — Mon, 18 May 2009 23:02:53 +0000

Nicely said MCT.