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Pimped-Out & Peddling: Childhood Interrupted

Monday Oct 19, 2009 – By Sky Obercam

Have you ever come across a group of juveniles whose fundraising practices consist of canvassing commercial hubs, or expressway entry ramps for their “marching band,” “sports team,” or “dance troupe”? If not, surely you’ve run into at least one youngster offering $5 candy bars for some sort of “worthy cause”. Unless you have sleet running through your veins, you’re bound to experience a complexity of thoughts and emotions: Shame, confusion, sorrow, frustration – there’s always a significant level of distress when children are involved.

What’s worse? The fact that children are being robbed of their childhood by spending day after day peddling the streets; that their lives are repeatedly placed in jeopardy; or that it is their parents/guardians that are exploiting them? This tragic phenomenon occurs virtually everywhere, not excluding this ‘powerful’ nation of ours. All over America, youth are being pimped out by the very people expected to protect them, while the rest of us observe with one blind eye & the other, judgmental.

Many of us were taught at an early age that one must give to receive. So, whatever happened to the acquisition of goods or services in exchange for monetary compensation? The days of bake sales and car washes are coming to an end in favor of the deadening, disgraceful act of begging. Youth are being taught to cut out the “middle man” and go straight for the pocket. The journey that instills positive work ethics and ingenuity does not exist which threatens to mentally/emotionally cripple these unfortunate youngsters – as well as generations to come.

True, many organizations depend on the charity of others, but what reputable establishments would consent to minors endangering their very lives by street peddling?

We must question the validity of such conduct. For instance, a marching band panhandling in the middle of a busy intersection would be much better served by receiving donations via a public concert performance than to approach moving vehicles with buckets brandished to collect cold hard cash. Perhaps the most disturbing aspect of this fiasco is the grown-folks who over-see the freeloading in a pimp-like fashion. And just like a pimp, these merciless adults have been accused of reaping the lion share of the profits. Vile and despicable, predators such as these understand human nature and therefore prey on an emotion they’ve been entirely deprived of: Compassion.

A number of Bostonians voiced their views as a result of an insightful blog post that addressed this issue about 2 years ago:

“Of course, there is a group of adults exploiting these children and essentially stealing away their childhood.

For me, the worst part is that everyone sees this going on… EVERYONE…  And what are our policemen and politicians doing to protect these kids? Nothing….. It’s one thing for adults, who feel they have no alternative, to panhandle.  It is another thing to exploit young children and endanger their health and their lives.”

Legitimate or not, all parties involved should be held liable for the well being of children and adolescents. We – the onlookers – passively condone these practices by choosing to ignore them. Obviously, law enforcement has not made abolishing such activities a priority, but the rest of us can make an effort to help our children. You can start by notifying your nearby child protection agency/advocacy group, or write letter of concern to your local ombudsperson or newspaper.

As sappy as it may sound, the children really are the future:

“We have a powerful potential in out youth, and we must have the courage to change old ideas and practices so that we may direct their power toward good ends.”

-Mary McLeod Bethune

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  1. Love it! I can’t stand to see children bum-rushing me when I come out of the bank asking me to buy candy to “support their basketball team”. The candy never even looks fundraiser size.Then there is always some adult on the side line chewing the children out… It’s a mess. I’m glad somebody wrote about this.

  2.  Nyota says:

    Very true! I’ll never forget when I was bum rushed after leaving Shoprite one day to donate money to some organization to “help the kids”. So out of curiousity I asked for a flyer on the organization or a phone number so I can donate at my own time after researching them. I attempted to call the number and it went to a wrong number at a private residence. I googled them and no organization under that name even showed up!

  3. UrbanGypsy UrbanGypsy says:

    Lmao @ bum rush!!! I know it’s sad but I forgot about that saying. It is sad though. Those kids are totally neglected by society.

  4. That is like, the saddest thing. And what people never seem to realize is that these kids really don’t have anyone showing them just how wrong that is. All the people who could’ve mentored these little black kids and been there to show them more than just the BET lifestyle, all leave. They always do. I remember how when I was little, I had my parents always telling me that we were the future and we had to do better for our people. Because our parents instilled that in us, we knew better. Nowadays, no one’s telling these kids that. You know what these kids are being told? That they have to “hustle” and get rich so they can “marry becky” and be a gangsta.

  5.  Nyota says:

    The Heene family aka the parents of the Balloon boy are by far the best example of pimping and peddling children..just wanted to throw that into the mix.

  6. maria maria says:

    I see this all over Boston, but didn’t know it was done all over the country. I wrote a letter to Mayor Menino about 2 years ago because I always saw young children under the age of 10 standing at a very dangerous intersection asking for money. It was supposedly for a fundraiser, but those children had open cans and they had no visible adult in site watching them. By the way, this same intersection is a place for drug addicts and homeless people. I wrote twice to the mayor and never received a call back, no letter, nothing. I know for a fact this wouldn’t have happened with “suburban” kids if you know what I mean. People aren’t outraged, but why? And where the hell are their parents?

  7. chelobello chelobello says:

    I am guilty. Riding the train on a slow afternoon I often lift my head above my slumber to the sight of a lil dude asking for attention as he provides “a entertainment” (as he says). Whether he’s doing the new “light foot” dance or taking it old school with a break dance routine, if the performance makes me crack a smile, I happily shell out some coins in the overturned baseball hat.
    As a wannabe performer/artist, I admire the boldness in some of these youth. I understand the qualms about panhandling, but I believe there is sincerity in a few of these youths who aren’t just looking to beg, but are taking advantage of a valuable resource- a live, unadulterated audience.
    Am I terrible?

  8. FAYMOUS FYA FAYMOUS FYA says:

    I HATE TO SOUND “THE CRAZY PANTHER” HOWEVER, FOR YEARS WE AS BLACK PEOPLE HAVE BEEN UNDER SPIRITUAL ATTACK, EFFECTING THE INTEGRITY OF OUR SOULS, THE DEVELOPMENT OF OUR MINDS, AND OUR OVERALL INTEGRITY.THE LAST PART IS ON SUCH A SPIRAL DOWNWARDS THAT A WHOLE HEARTED APPEAL TO GOD IS NEEDED TO ASSIST US IN FIGHTING THIS BATTLE AND SLAYING THIS ENEMY.OUR BABIES PEOPLE OUR BABIES. I PRAY THAT THE ONES IM RESPONSIBLE FOR NEVER HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO DEMEAN THEMSLEVES SO EARLY.

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