THIS WEEK'S ISSUE — Updated Every Monday!

melanie-fiona-universoul

Our foreign neighbor Canada is known for producing unforgettable musical talent like R&B singer/songwriter/actress Deborah Cox, who swore to us…

theres-just-something-about-gossip-part-1

In the world of gossip, talk ain’t cheap…

What is it about gossip that draws us in? Better yet, how many…

over-paid-reality-stars

The value system that our society maintains ceases to amaze me. In this crazy world of ours people who deal…

the-world-outside-our-borders

Sylvia Arthur sets out a few inspirational and enlightening facts to get your minds in gear to explore the big…

boy-crazy-how-to-tell-if-you%e2%80%99ve-got-it-bad

Ever since Rodney Parker chased me round the playground of P.S.139, past the teeter totter, through the sandbox, all up…

motivational-tips-that-every-young-career-woman-needs

Imagine this…

You’re headed home after a long drawn out lecture in your evening college class. Cruising down the highway in…

why-the-are-they-famous

A celebrity is a famous person.
A famous person is one who has a widespread reputation usually of a favorable nature.
A…

back-to-the-future-what-would-they-say

“No industry is black-owned. Actually, the (NBA) Player’s Association gets 49 percent of the revenue, since most players are black.…

the-colorful-canvas-files-bethann-hardison

This issue of The Colorful Canvas Files is brought to you by a living legend whose contributions have led to a significant…

are-you-a-jerk-magnet

Many of us set out to find that Mr. Right, but for some, he is always seemingly attached to some…

therapy-in-black-and-white

My shrink said the strangest thing to me in therapy once. She said she was sorry she’d monopolized so much…

november-2009-beauty-qa-home-for-the-holidays

Q: I am going back home for the holidays and want to wow my friends and family with a glamorous…

nia-long-in-progress

With Hollywood for years being a haven for the long-haired blond and brunette, it’s hard to be a sex symbol…

what-to-expect-when-dealing-with-the-racially-impaired

We’re only human and equally subject to the chronic brainwashing that inevitably instills varying degrees of bigotry. Racism, sexism, homophobia,…

times-are-hard-a-letter-to-my-girlfriend

Times are hard especially financially, however, my girlfriend does not seem to realize the whole world is undergoing something called…

change-we-still-believe-in

I remember exactly where I was that night that history was made. I was fast asleep in my bed and…

top-ten-trends-we-want-to-see-disappear

It was proven best in the fashionable documentary The September Issue, that Fall is the New Year’s of fashion. Fashion…

lights-camera-natural

I vividly remember the day I got my first relaxer. I was 7 years old, and there I sat in…

Progressive vs Traditional Churches: Old Time Religion or New Fangled Faith?

Monday Mar 16, 2009 – By Natalie Nichols

dv1395021Those of us who have long left the nest of parents, who like mine, mandated church in lieu of other forms of punishment, find ourselves dealing with the dilemma of if, and more importantly where, to worship on Sunday mornings. Churches are far from created equal. Every small brick structure with requisite steeple may appear like a nice place to spend a Sunday morning. That is until you show up at 11:00 a.m. only to be offered a rattlesnake as a gateway to your salvation. Past approaches to preaching are not fully appreciated by a growing generation of faithless. Influenced more by their closest friends, the Internet and Facebook, persons searching for soul saving rarely see a Reverend as the source of greater understanding.

Not to mention, today’s churches have some major issues. Being a Church member often times is rarely about saving souls and helping people who are genuinely hurting. When a place of worship is more concerned with putting their pastor on a billboard than ministering to the broken communities in their own backyard, you have to wonder, what does this church really believe in? Where do their priorities lie? Is there really something here that I can take away from these folks that will enrich me at a spiritual level? Committing to a church beyond the level of a casual attendee is work, and sometimes once embroiled in the inner workings, folks find it’s a rung-by-rung climb to see who can get closest to the pastor and his cronies. Church folks are – many times – the worst folks and anyone who has grown up in a church can attest to it. The Lord’s business becomes secondary to personal business, gossip, and self-serving interests, as wrong-intentioned people seek to use the church to inflate their own self-importance.

It’s a level of toxicity found rampant amongst traditional worship centers that have led to newer or progressive churches popping up everywhere from middle school cafeterias to abandoned homes converted in to a space useful for a growing congregation. Massive discontent among traditional church members, who honestly want to do some good, has led to an upsurge in non-denominational off spring. Churches steeped in history and pageantry are at best aloof to what is happening at a social level outside of their doors; at worst not interested in getting involved. Younger, fresher churches are able to lure away the flocks by presenting themselves as an alternative to “old-time religion” by offering frank discussions about AIDS, domestic violence, incest, and drug abuse, hosting prison ministries and taking the word out of the church and to the people. Progressive churches rarely require you be glammed up for God, come as you are, be it some jeans, a hoodie or your favorite kicks. In a society gone crazy for casual, this aspect of progressive churches is sometimes the greatest draw to new comers. Yet, neither of these options addresses spirituality that supersedes rote or random roles and looks more at who we are as beings.

Spirituality has become a pop culture antithesis to the idea of organized religion. Proponents of spirituality argue they don’t need church to know God. Modern lives revolve around the instant and the customizable, so why should matters of faith be any different? If I want God, I can go to him directly. If there is something I don’t know about the world around me, I can find it on Wikipedia.

God is a lot of things, but the most important of them all, is personal. Your own relationship with the most High exists on whether or not you choose to exercise your faith outside the doors of the church.

Progressive churches often times aren’t all that progressive. Storefront preachers are as widespread as they have ever been, and it’s easy to mask cult like ideas by calling yourself a church. If you still feel compelled to find a church home, be careful about where you settle your roots. Keep an open mind and recognize God resides in the ultimate temple, in you at all times.

Related Tags:

3 Comments – Add Yours

  1. sloane sloane says:

    very thought-provoking, and insightful article. and thanks for reasonably discussing the other options outside of church for expressing spirtuality. i’m a lapsed catholic and i made a concious decision to never step inside a church again when i was 12. i don’t feel that any organized religion agrees with my progressive sensibilities and i’m more spirtual than religious.

  2. LaKeyshaF LaKeyshaF says:

    I see the “progressiveness” as nothing new. This has been going on since the church was formed 2000 years ago. People become frusterated with the status quo and break away to form their own version of Christianity. Thats why we have so many denominations now. Many years down the road our grandchildren will call traditional what we called progressive.

    The important thing is to have accepted Jesus as your savior. The second is to follow what he taught as closely as possible and one of those things is to “fail not to assemble ourselves…singing songs and hymns to one another…having two or three gathered together in His name touching and agreeing…” all things (paraphrased) that the Bible tells us to do.
    If you choose not to attend a church does that mean youre not saved? No, it just means that you’re not being obediant to the word of God in that area. Can we be just as effective…no. The bible also says that one of us can put a thousand to flight but TWO of us can send a legion (about 5000) fleeing (power in numbers). And considering how many options/churches/denominations there are to choose from I can’t see anyone not being able to find one that fits.

    Above all we must remember that church folks are not perfect…so don’t look for a church with perfect people (cuz we’re not perfect either)…look for one where you feel comfortable in furthering your Christian walk.

  3. Donna Donna says:

    Agreed what LaKeysha stated, this isn’t anything new, I would elab however on the fact that denom’s also has a lot to do with people’s misinterpretations of the bible which causes them to break off. Where as some people branch off because of those exact issues as well as traditions etc. that are manmade not biblically centered.

    Also I think the society we live in today has a very misguided view of the church’s purpose is. Seeing it as a place for the hurt to come to and get help. True to a degree but ultimately the church is the body of believers. Someone that isn’t a Christian that comes to church seeking should come to do just that, and the pastor should be equipped to teach those that are seeking answers however the church is (again as LaKeysha already stated) for the body of believers and actually the body is the church the physical building is where we gather.

    We do the church actually need one another to function. God gives His people specific gifts to minister to one another as well as being a witness to those that don’t know Him. So I’d say that one cannot see God in full apart from the body. Doesn’t mean you don’t come to know Him solo and ought to be studying the bible solo but He’s designed it where we do need one another and branching off can become a form of idolatry where you lean on your own thinking concerning Him, translating the bible as it seems to make sense. Also those imperfect people that will cut you deep trust, God will use you to love them and even when the love isn’t returned, use those situations to shape you as well and genuingly love them in the mist of hate.

  4. [...] the full article, visit Clutch.com. Possibly related posts: (automatically generated)Confession: I Love ChurchA faith which is [...]

Leave a Comment

  • We moderate comments and prohibit personal attacks, threats, spam, lewd images, or the promotion of your personal website.
  • Please keep comments related to topic.
  • Follow us on Facebook and Twitter.

You are commenting as a Guest. Optional: Login below.

Twitter + Facebook Users
Enter your personal information in the form or sign in with your Twitter/Facebook account.

NEWS.GOSSIP.INFO — Daily Blog

link-love-roundup-what-were-reading-2

We are so lucky to have so many friends and extended Clutch family members around the web and that’s why we…

fashions-hot-new-trend-insensitivity

Basically, it appears as though there are folks within the fashion industry who are absolutely devoid of common sense. First,…

aids-created-by-the-cia-whatchu-talkin-about-bugner

Much like a celebrity recycling dumpsite, UK reality show “I’m A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here!” is rife with…

uptown-literati-x-clutch-weekly-reading-recommendation-11-20-09

A girl’s got to read, this all Clutchettes know. So, to help navigate the ever-expanding world of books, Uptown Literati…

clutch-celeb-beauty-tipshow-tos-how-to-transition-your-hair-from-relaxed-to-natural

Clutchettes – we know how important it is to be educated and informed on all things beauty. From eyelash application…

regina-kimbell-the-lady-behind-my-nappy-roots

By now most everyone has heard of the copyright infringement lawsuit filed by Filmmaker Regina Kimbell against Chris Rock/HBO, concerning…