Comments on: The Other Woman http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/ The Digital Magazine for the Young, Contemporary Woman of Color Sat, 21 Nov 2009 11:34:03 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Sabrina http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25688 Sabrina Tue, 14 Jul 2009 20:57:33 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25688 First...GoldAngel for president! Second...RG, I hope that one day you man up and get a divorce because while you THINK you're saving your family from hurt, do know that you're hurting them each time you hook up with the other woman whether you (or your family) know it or not. Esp. if you truly love, honor and respect your Heavenly Father that you took vows before. Do you think He approves of this behavior? Be a man and set YOURSELF free... Peace First…GoldAngel for president!

Second…RG, I hope that one day you man up and get a divorce because while you THINK you’re saving your family from hurt, do know that you’re hurting them each time you hook up with the other woman whether you (or your family) know it or not. Esp. if you truly love, honor and respect your Heavenly Father that you took vows before. Do you think He approves of this behavior? Be a man and set YOURSELF free…

Peace

]]> By: De mayo http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25504 De mayo Wed, 08 Jul 2009 04:47:11 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25504 @Goldangel-- that was perfect. Couldn't have said it better myself!!I am one of the wife that was cheated on. RG- you are the worst kind of bad person, because you actually think and believe you are good!. You have a justification and a reason for what you are doing. Wake up man! You are a liar, a cheater, a bad husband and a bad father! It will all come out in the end, trust me. When your kids are grown up, maybe when you have grand kids, maybe on your funeral. Whenever, but it will all come out. And that's the legacy you will leave behind to your family... @Goldangel– that was perfect. Couldn’t have said it better myself!!I am one of the wife that was cheated on.

RG- you are the worst kind of bad person, because you actually think and believe you are good!. You have a justification and a reason for what you are doing. Wake up man! You are a liar, a cheater, a bad husband and a bad father! It will all come out in the end, trust me. When your kids are grown up, maybe when you have grand kids, maybe on your funeral. Whenever, but it will all come out. And that’s the legacy you will leave behind to your family…

]]> By: Clnmike http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25445 Clnmike Tue, 07 Jul 2009 00:52:50 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25445 ^ Not Cool. ^ Not Cool.

]]> By: Tiffany W. http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25443 Tiffany W. Tue, 07 Jul 2009 00:44:02 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25443 Two words: Steve. McNair. Two words: Steve. McNair.

]]> By: One Kind http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25345 One Kind Sat, 04 Jul 2009 16:51:43 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25345 RG--OMG You are not serious.You don't truly love the other woman. You're in lust and you love your situation. The other woman is just convenient to you because true love make sacrifices and is not selfish. You would not find excuses not to leave your wife and marry her (i think we'll grow apart, my finances, your job, etc) Do you work for your wife, do your wife support you financially, are you just a deadbeat, etc. You are selfish and foolish as well as the other woman. You don't really know her, you haven't spent time with her to really know her. You say you want to marry her. Wow there's another divorce waiting to happen. you couldn't possibly know the true meaning of marriage. She just seem to be the perfect one because you given her all the answers to what you really want by complaining about all your wife doesn't do and you're afraid to see the real deal of your 20%. The grass is not always greener on the other side. I can't really break it down to you like I want bc its the 4th and I have to spend time with my family and plus I'm not getting paid give you free counseling which you so desperately need. RG–OMG You are not serious.You don’t truly love the other woman. You’re in lust and you love your situation. The other woman is just convenient to you because true love make sacrifices and is not selfish. You would not find excuses not to leave your wife and marry her (i think we’ll grow apart, my finances, your job, etc) Do you work for your wife, do your wife support you financially, are you just a deadbeat, etc.

You are selfish and foolish as well as the other woman. You don’t really know her, you haven’t spent time with her to really know her. You say you want to marry her. Wow there’s another divorce waiting to happen. you couldn’t possibly know the true meaning of marriage. She just seem to be the perfect one because you given her all the answers to what you really want by complaining about all your wife doesn’t do and you’re afraid to see the real deal of your 20%. The grass is not always greener on the other side.

I can’t really break it down to you like I want bc its the 4th and I have to spend time with my family and plus I’m not getting paid give you free counseling which you so desperately need.

]]> By: Goldangel http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25244 Goldangel Tue, 30 Jun 2009 03:06:44 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25244 RG I won’t tear you up and down b/c that would be too easy. The only thing any honest person with integrity could ever hope for you is karma’s progression and that you get SEVEN TIMES SEVENTY THE RECEIPT ON THE EXACT SAME THINGS you’ve put out for 9 years. What’s that you say? Lies, deceit and cheating. Oh but you want sympathy and for people to not be so “hard” and “vindictive” on ‘cheaters’? Nigga please! Is you serious?! Maybe the jump-off you claim to love has been sucking off the city’s top investment banker for the last 7 years exactly 2 days after you left her. You 100% sure of what your side slut was/has been doing when you were away? Think your wife hasn’t a clue what you’ve been doing because she hasn’t called you out on it? If so, good, and dream on, but what 100% proof do you have that either your silly-ho or wifey hasn’t been giving out exactly what you gave and getting theirs this whole time? That’s right, NONE, so get tested or die of some sexually transmitted diseased that YOU ASKED FOR. You don’t know what either of them were doing every second of the day b/c you chose to break trust and MEN ARE STUPID. Hopefully your wife has been getting her sugar pot licked then smacked, flipped, rubbed down, then fucked-better-than-you-ever-have by some HYT (that’s handsome young thang) every second you spent sticking outside the vows you made before God. How ya like that? How you feelin’ those thoughts? Both your wife and hooka-on-the-side just might come to hate your deceitful guts one day then move on to BIGGER and BETTER dick. You can cloak your selfishness in bullshit claims of trying to protect your “job and finances” and being scary and afraid that your “child will be hurt” all you like, but that only makes you double the punk ass bitch. If you weren’t happy and satisfied your balls should have hung low enough for you to do it with integrity, tell the truth, leave and divorce over being a lying piece of shit for 9 years. RG I won’t tear you up and down b/c that would be too easy. The only thing any honest person with integrity could ever hope for you is karma’s progression and that you get SEVEN TIMES SEVENTY THE RECEIPT ON THE EXACT SAME THINGS you’ve put out for 9 years. What’s that you say? Lies, deceit and cheating. Oh but you want sympathy and for people to not be so “hard” and “vindictive” on ‘cheaters’? Nigga please! Is you serious?!

Maybe the jump-off you claim to love has been sucking off the city’s top investment banker for the last 7 years exactly 2 days after you left her. You 100% sure of what your side slut was/has been doing when you were away? Think your wife hasn’t a clue what you’ve been doing because she hasn’t called you out on it? If so, good, and dream on, but what 100% proof do you have that either your silly-ho or wifey hasn’t been giving out exactly what you gave and getting theirs this whole time? That’s right, NONE, so get tested or die of some sexually transmitted diseased that YOU ASKED FOR. You don’t know what either of them were doing every second of the day b/c you chose to break trust and MEN ARE STUPID. Hopefully your wife has been getting her sugar pot licked then smacked, flipped, rubbed down, then fucked-better-than-you-ever-have by some HYT (that’s handsome young thang) every second you spent sticking outside the vows you made before God. How ya like that? How you feelin’ those thoughts?

Both your wife and hooka-on-the-side just might come to hate your deceitful guts one day then move on to BIGGER and BETTER dick. You can cloak your selfishness in bullshit claims of trying to protect your “job and finances” and being scary and afraid that your “child will be hurt” all you like, but that only makes you double the punk ass bitch. If you weren’t happy and satisfied your balls should have hung low enough for you to do it with integrity, tell the truth, leave and divorce over being a lying piece of shit for 9 years.

]]> By: Tiffany W. http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25189 Tiffany W. Sun, 28 Jun 2009 12:36:56 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25189 Amazing. First of all, this isn't a blog. It is an online interactive magazine, buddy. Second, all you are doing is wasting a bunch of people's time. Number one, your wife. Don't think that all her life consists of is you, kids, and work. She probably waiting for some woman to take you away, so she can finally marry Usher. Second, the kids. Don't put up a facade of a "relationship" of husband and wife. If you don't have affection for you wife, how healthy is that for your kids to see. They learn everything from home, don't give them that image to carry with them. Lastly, the other woman. Nobody likes second place. You said nine years, like it wasn't anything. Uhhh, she's tired of waiting on you! Divorce shouldn't be an excuse, everybody else is doing it quite fine. And if your wife takes you to the cleaners, consider it karma. Amazing. First of all, this isn’t a blog. It is an online interactive magazine, buddy. Second, all you are doing is wasting a bunch of people’s time. Number one, your wife. Don’t think that all her life consists of is you, kids, and work. She probably waiting for some woman to take you away, so she can finally marry Usher.

Second, the kids. Don’t put up a facade of a “relationship” of husband and wife. If you don’t have affection for you wife, how healthy is that for your kids to see. They learn everything from home, don’t give them that image to carry with them.

Lastly, the other woman. Nobody likes second place. You said nine years, like it wasn’t anything. Uhhh, she’s tired of waiting on you! Divorce shouldn’t be an excuse, everybody else is doing it quite fine. And if your wife takes you to the cleaners, consider it karma.

]]> By: NJD http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25184 NJD Sun, 28 Jun 2009 02:50:49 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25184 Wow.Speechless @ RG. I'm never getting married..... Wow.Speechless @ RG. I’m never getting married…..

]]> By: RG http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25183 RG Sun, 28 Jun 2009 02:33:02 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25183 Hi Tiff - I know it's easy to slam somebody you'll never see or know in a blog, so no offense taken. Yes, I love the other woman beyond belief. And our relationship was purely platonic for two years before we first made love. Because we are both so busy and some distance between us, I'm lucky to be able to spend time with her a couple times a month, apart from the vacation we take together each year. You're wrong about something else also. I pray each day that my wife would meet a man who would sweep her off her feet and connect with her deeply and share the same aspirations and goals in life as she does. It would let me off the hook and let both of us pursue our dreams with what few years we are given to live. I would totally understand. Sometimes, you know, a guy just marries the wrong gal or vice versa and sometimes you don't realize the dreams are all but gone until many years have passed. Hi Tiff – I know it’s easy to slam somebody you’ll never see or know in a blog, so no offense taken. Yes, I love the other woman beyond belief. And our relationship was purely platonic for two years before we first made love. Because we are both so busy and some distance between us, I’m lucky to be able to spend time with her a couple times a month, apart from the vacation we take together each year. You’re wrong about something else also. I pray each day that my wife would meet a man who would sweep her off her feet and connect with her deeply and share the same aspirations and goals in life as she does. It would let me off the hook and let both of us pursue our dreams with what few years we are given to live. I would totally understand. Sometimes, you know, a guy just marries the wrong gal or vice versa and sometimes you don’t realize the dreams are all but gone until many years have passed.

]]> By: Tiffany W. http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-other-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-25182 Tiffany W. Sun, 28 Jun 2009 01:02:12 +0000 http://clutchmagonline.com/?p=22428#comment-25182 RG, Do you love her (the other woman) or do you love her sex? Just curious question. Anyhow, I'll tell you why we have no compassion for the other woman and the cheating man, BECAUSE YOU SUCK! Those are the best words I can think of, because I find it inconceivable that you would ask that. "What about me? What about my feelings?" Cheating is the lowest you could probably go, when you are suppose to be committed to someone and have children on top of that. All that time spent screwing that lady silly could have been spent on your marriage and your kids. We have no sympathy for you or her, because you both are wrong in every sense of the word. If your wife did that to you, would you say, "You know baby, I completely understand." No, you wouldn't. So, don't expect that compassion, because you don't deserve it. RG,

Do you love her (the other woman) or do you love her sex? Just curious question.

Anyhow, I’ll tell you why we have no compassion for the other woman and the cheating man, BECAUSE YOU SUCK! Those are the best words I can think of, because I find it inconceivable that you would ask that. “What about me? What about my feelings?” Cheating is the lowest you could probably go, when you are suppose to be committed to someone and have children on top of that. All that time spent screwing that lady silly could have been spent on your marriage and your kids. We have no sympathy for you or her, because you both are wrong in every sense of the word. If your wife did that to you, would you say, “You know baby, I completely understand.” No, you wouldn’t. So, don’t expect that compassion, because you don’t deserve it.

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