In a recent interview with Sister 2 Sister magazine, our favorite Philly homegirl, Jill Scott, discussed one of her biggest weaknesses and how she overcame it—the D.

Apparently Ms. Scott had a thing for brothas with magic sticks and, well, got “Dickmatized” by a few who could put it down.

Although I’ve never heard of the term specifically, Jilly describes her particular affliction for the D as:

“Where you get caught up in the whole sexuality of your relationship but it’s not going anywhere… Just somebody giving you the goods but not necessarily giving you the rest-or not expecting the rest from them.”


Although Jill Recently revealed that she is no longer celibate, she did tell Us Weekly that she’s no longer rushing into a sexual relationship with a man—she wants to take her time.

She explained:

“The whole celibacy thing, you could throw that out the window. That’s over. But I don’t have physical intimacy until at least the fifth date. So I can get to know who I’m dealing with and they can get to know me….I’m just trying to look at the mistakes that I made. I got so caught up in the flesh and I’m not even allowing someone to get to know the best parts of me. I’m a single girl in the world, but if I don’t have some standards then I can be making the same mistakes that I made in the past. I do want love. Genuine love. And sometimes sex can get in the way.”

So how did Illy Jilly break the spell of the D?

“What I’ve discovered is, although it may be a lot of fun, it is also a waste of time and you might be blocking your blessing-blocking somebody who wants to be more to you than just a great time in your life.” Scott added, “Just realizing what I have to offer. I’m so much more than my flesh!”

Well, amen to that. I guess we now know what inspired “Rolling Hills.” Get ‘em girl!

What say you, Clutchettes? Have you ever been ‘dickmatized’? How’d you break the spell?

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  • CK

    welp, you ain’t lived until it’s happened to you AT least once, O_0

  • I just found that person , and it’s so hard since I moved to Philly and I ended up meeting him by chance . And no I can’t run away or retreat to my own place becasue suddenly I live with him … And I need to get out ….fast but it’s soo good . Everyone says I’m super smart but men are my epic flaws .. and this man has grabbed me and I just want to hang on , knowing in the deepest part of me that this is not it . But every says your young girl 26 live it up …. This is not living it up .. unless my legs are up , and this is not a good look . But everytime I see him I’m playing JIll Scott’s song .