I was having a conversation with one of my boys when we were talking about whether or not “ugly” women had a harder time attracting men. While neither one of us could define what constituted an “ugly” woman (beauty IS subjective after all), we agreed that men tend to be more visual when pursuing a woman, especially initially.

Sure, we may all be attracted to someone based on how they look at first, but in my observation, men tend to rule out women based on how they look, while women—well we’ll work with a less conventionally attractive dude who makes us laugh. I mean, every man can’t be Idris, right?

Is this just a numbers game? Do women “settle” for men who are not as physically attractive as we’d like because the available pool of men is competitive? Or are we just able to judge a man on the basis of his character rather than how he looks?

What say you Clutchettes and Gents….do “ugly” men get a pass from women?

Let’s talk about it!   

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  • dancehall

    you know what i have dated guys i didnt think was hot just because i wanted to see through the ugly, but see with that a**hole try to mess over you or play you then you like I WASTED MYSELF FOR SOME FUGLY DUDE I DIDNT EVEN LIKE!
    so attraction is now on my list , i want to be attracted to the person at least

    • fuchsia

      lol I agree with you. A guy has to be attractive. That way if and when it’s over I can at least say “but damn he sure looked good though!”