A friend of mine and I were talking the other day when he brought up an interesting question. He wondered, when you’re seeing a new boo and you’re ready to take things to the next, *ehem* physical, level, how do you ask? 

I thought about it for a moment.

He wondered if women were straightforward about their intentions to get it on. I told him we’re more likely to drop hints about what we want and let our partner take it from there. I figured men were typically more aggressive about expressing their sexual desires, but my friend’s question showed that sometimes they can even be a bit unsure about how to proceed.

Although there is no one-size-fits-all way to let you’re partner know you’re ready to have sex, which approach—being suggestive or straight forward—works best?

Clutchettes and Gents, how do you let your boo know you’re ready to get it on?

Let’s talk about it! 

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  • Anon

    “so, when’s the last time you were tested” “let’s get tested”

    • Jess

      Oh, I say that long before I’m ready to have sex. Like early, in the beginning of the relationship.

  • Dede

    Um ok…this is a first. Since when have women EVER had to ask for sex lol, It works the other way around in relationships for me….But here is my question..How long should YOU wait to have sex with someone? Do you ever have sex just for fun or pleasure with no strings attached?

  • L

    Stop preventing his hand from roaming

  • L

    Stop preventing his hand from roaming lol