The Superbowl might be the only American tradition that gives me palpable anxiety every time it rolls around. Between feeling like I should at least try to find a Superbowl party and reverting back to my old nail-biting habits once I get into the game itself, the thing just leaves me exhausted. This year I’ve drawn a hard line in the sand: no Superbowl, no Superbowl parties, no nothin’, and I have five good reasons for it.

1. Football Can Be Nerve-Wracking and Even Make You Sad. I started watching football because a had a crush on a guy who was a big Eagles fan, but over time my understanding of and interest in the game grew. I used to really love it. But before I knew it I was celebrating so hard after every win that you’d think I was actually receiving tangible benefit from it, yet shedding real tears after losses (and if you follow football, as an Eagles fan I experienced a lot of those). I’m too much of an emotional Nervous Nelly to invest my heart and soul into something I can’t control. And did you know that football makes babies cry?

I can’t deal with it.

2. You Can See The Good Stuff Later. The commercials and half time show (which this year features Madonna) are the most interesting aspects of the game, but all of that will be available on the internet without that messy football stuff before the game is even over. The only other benefit to football itself is looking at fine men in tight pants, but there are also better ways to do that before and after the game.

3. The “Real Fans” Act Crazy. I do not understand why people (by people I pretty much mean men) hoot and holler and grunt and shout and hop up and down before and/or after each and every play during a football game. It’s the only environment where it’s acceptable to act like a wildebeest indoors and I find that somewhat freakish. I’ve even been at football parties that have ended in fisticuffs after rival fans have talked a little bit too much smack about each others teams. It’s not pretty.

Dude…really…it’s ok.

4. Superbowl Party Buffets. Buffalo wings, nacho dips, veggie and cheese platters that don’t skimp on the ranch dressing, cupcakes, and even cupcakes with hot wings on them are all foods that will be laid out on any Superbowl buffet worth its salt (and in most cases, its fat). A Superbowl party can turn into a second Thanksgiving if you let it, and like Thanksgiving hosts take it personally if you don’t at least try their special dishes. For me, a nibble here and a nibble there amounts to extra time in the gym that just ain’t worth trying out someone’s special potato salad. I’ll meet up with the crew after the game, thanks.

5. There Are Other Things To Do. When I was in a relationship, football on Sundays was pretty much non-negotiable, and even now many of my married friends call me on Sundays to lament their husbands being taken hostage by televised sports for those few hours every week. But Sunday afternoon/evening is great for giving a home-cooked meal the attention it deserves, or deep-conditioning your hair, or cleaning up around the house and getting ready for the work week. Superbowl Sunday is specifically great for going shopping because once the game starts most stores will be ghost towns (unless you’re shopping for chips or beer). So that’s what I’m gonna do.

How about you? Are you watching the Superbowl this year?

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  • E.M.S.

    I disagree with this entire article. Sure there are certain aspects you may not be fond of in whatever you do, but you can work around these. Examples addressing your reasons:

    1) Realize at the end of the day, it’s just a game. YOU have the power to control whether you act like psychotic moron over your favorite team. Learn to control yourself.

    2) Real football fans don’t just watch football for “the good stuff”. If you truly love the sport you watch it all, the good, the bad, and the ugly.

    3) First of all, this is sexist. I know women who act just as crazy as men do over a good game (me & my mother included). Second, if you can’t deal with all of that, maybe watch the game with calmer folks, or alone.

    4) You have control over what you eat, so maybe get some of your own snacks if you feel that eating what’s offered is no good for you.

    5) Just because there are other things to do doesn’t mean people want to do them. If you like shopping, knock yourself out, but don’t ruin everybody else’s fun who wants to watch the game. I see nothing wrong with giving your partner some time to watch if he or she desires. You don’t need to go out together on that specific day.

    It’s find to have your own convictions about the Superbowl, but I really disagree with encouraging people not to engage just because you don’t enjoy it as much as others.

    • Shay

      Clearly, you would disagree with this article since football is such an integral part of life (a conclusion I came to in light of the fact that your comment is almost as long as the original post). Believe it or not, many people don’t give a damn about football. Grow up.

    • E.M.S.

      @Shay, I enjoy football, but it’s not that serious to me. I’m simply pointing out there are solutions to these issues if someone really wanted to figure out how to enjoy it despite the stereotypical football culture.

      I’m not really sure how my comment makes me immature. I was addressing each reason separately and trying to be thorough. They teach you that sort of thing in school when it comes to debates and discussion. Thanks for your input, albeit somewhat rude :)

    • Sydni

      I completely agree with EMS’s comment. And to @Shay, your comments was a little rude. I dont watch football often ( Im a basketball type of girl ) but I agree, I dont think this article should discourage people from watching the Bowl just because the writer seems to have had some tragic incident with it in the past. This is america, we love sports. If its that serious, have some self control

    • Ginger

      Another commenter encapsulated your long comment/post quite simply:

      “Sooo your list (minus #5) is exactly why i WILL be watching the superbowl this Sunday. There is NOTHING ELSE to do on Super Bowl Sunday in America #quitlyingtoyourself”

      Difference – one made me smile. The other made out like the writer had foam for brains – not nice.

  • Nunya

    Football bores me to death. I’d rather watch paint dry. My boyfriend on the other hand, is a sports idiot-savant, and knows every stat in the history of the game. I’ll let him have his man-time… I’ll relax in the bath with a good book tonight.

  • girlformerlyknownasgrace

    Go Giants! Okay i did not watch the game but i am proud of them!