gay black menA bill aiming to legalize adoption and foster parenting for same-sex couples is being reintroduced in the House of Representatives. The Every Child Deserves a Family Act would “prohibit programs that receive federal funding from discriminating against potential foster and adoptive families based on sexual orientation, gender identity or marital status” according to the legislative proposal.

The bill is sponsored by Reps. John Lewis (D-Ga.) and Ileana Ros-Lehtinen (R-Fla.) and hopes to use the momentum surrounding LGBT equality to promote the importance of this issue.

The Huffington Post reports:

Seven states currently ban a person in a same-sex couple from adopting his or her partner’s children, and gay couples face legal restrictions when petitioning for joint adoption in five states. In all, according to the Family Equality Council, LGBT people face barriers to adopting or fostering children in 39 states.

“Why…should more than 400,000 children remain in foster care — 104,000 of whom are eligible for adoption — when they could receive this support from loving, capable, and qualified lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender parents?” said PFLAG National Executive Director Jody M. Huckaby in a statement. “This is truly discrimination at its worst: hurtful to the people who are being denied the opportunity to become parents, and harmful to thousands of vulnerable children being denied the opportunity for stable, loving, permanent homes.”

The push to allow same-sex couples equal adoption rights gained a new supporter last week, when Rep. Paul Ryan (R-Wis.) told his constituents at a town hall meeting that he regretted voting in 1999 to ban same-sex couples in Washington, D.C., from adopting children.

“I do believe that if there are children who are orphans who do not have a loving person or couple, I think if a person wants to love and raise a child they ought to be able to do that. Period. I would vote that way,” he said.

“His statements demonstrate that the best interests of children isn’t a partisan issue,” said Emily Hecht-McGowan, director of public policy for Family Equality Council. “We welcome support of the Every Child Deserves a Family Act by lawmakers on both sides of the aisle.”

Ryan’s office did not return a request for comment on whether he would back the bill.

In late March, the American Academy of Pediatrics came out in favor of same-sex marriage, as well as full adoption and foster care rights for all parents, regardless of sexual orientation. It concluded that there is no scientific evidence to suggest that children raised by same-sex parents are any worse off than those raised by heterosexual parents.

“The APP believes there should be equal opportunity for every couple to access the economic stability and federal supports provided to married couples to raise children,” said Benjamin Siegel, MD, FAAP, chair of the AAP Committee on Psychosocial Aspects of Child and Family Health.“Children thrive in families that are stable and that provide permanent security, and the way we do that is through marriage.”

The ECDF hopes to increase the number of accessible stable and supportive homes by removing the obstacles keeping LGBT couples from adopting and fostering.

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  • Misty_Moonsilver

    The main argument against same sex adoption has been that a child needs a mother and a father to successfully grow up. Same with single mothers. While single mothers are incredible, there is often something lacking when a child grows up without and mother and father figure. So I wonder is it healthy for a young boy to grow up with two mothers for example?

    • Mademoiselle

      I think as far as single vs dual parenting goes, the reason kids fair better with 2 is because raising children is more than one person can handle alone, so having a partner helps cover more bases and catch things before they fall through the cracks. I think the only thing that can’t be provided by adoptions of any kind is a true connection to where a child comes from and the biological draw of that parent/child connection. As far as gay couples go, that would just make it harder to raise the child without having the conversation of who his/her real parent(s) are, but just like single parents, proxies (grandparents, aunts/uncles, cousins, close friends) can be used to connect kids to a missing male or female figures in the home.

  • Carefree

    A homosexual cannot raise a man. An apple tree cannot bare oranges. That would be perversion!
    These gays are raising gays by context. If you’re raise by a fool, by law, you’re one as well.

    • Mademoiselle

      So that makes your parents … ?


    • Carefree

      I have no time for rudimentary implications.

      God loves you!

    • Mademoiselle

      Yet you have time for ridiculous conclusions? How is it possible for heterosexual parents to raise gay kids yet impossible for gay parents to raise heterosexual kids? And how can you not have time for rudimentary implications yet imply that gay parents and the kids they raise are fools? Please figure your life out before you make any more assertions about people you don’t know.

    • Misty_Moonsilver


  • Carefree

    Mademoiselle are you by chance lesbian?

  • Mademoiselle

    I’m heterosexual. Why do you ask?

    • Carefree

      If it walk like a lesbian, talk like a lesbian…

  • Mademoiselle

    Don’t all human beings walk the same way — one foot in front of the other, right? You and I speak the same language (hence our dialogue), so where are you going with this? Maybe right back to those rudimentary implications you referenced before, or maybe you’re back to jumping to conclusions again … ?

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