Ciara and Future are allegedly back together again after their recent break-up. TMZ reported that Ciara wants Future to be around to help out with the baby, and she’s willing to work on the relationship and disregard his cheating ways for it.
But could that be a recipe for disaster?
As a child of divorce, I witnessed my parents breaking up and making up for the sake of the kids. But what they failed to realize is that through all of the rigamoro, we still witnessed their tumultuous relationship. The finger-pointing and arguing had a bigger effect on us than the actual divorce that eventually happened. It even got to one point where I told my mother, don’t stay with him because of us. We will be just fine with only one parent in the house.
Ciara and Future’s son, Zahir, may be only an infant, but as a child gets older they’re not immune to understanding what’s going on in a relationship. Maybe this could be a lesson to many women. If you know how a man is before you met him, chances are, he’s not going to change after he’s in your presence. Monogamy wasn’t Future’s strong-suit — and it may never be.
Clutchettes, do you think someone should stay in a relationship just because they have a child together?