As you can see in the photo below, one of her daughters played with her gift on Christmas day:
Nachman was disappointed in the viral video and wanted to make her own, along with providing a statement about how it made her feel:
There is a video going around with two little white girls getting Black baby dolls for Christmas and then crying about it while their mom laughs in the background. This is NOT that video, and I’m not reposting it because it’s a great (racist) example of how NOT to parent your kids. Meanwhile, in Wisconsin, these two little white girls got Black American girl dolls for Christmas, and were positively thrilled, so I thought I’d make a little replacement video right quick. Since December 25th these two have been carried around non-stop, changed in and out of outfits constantly, and lovingly put to bed every night. So as a white mom with white kids, why not buy dolls that look like them? Well, they do have white dolls. We also have Hispanic and Asian dolls. But I think it’s important for my kids to have dolls who don’t look like them because for one, it teaches them that all skin colors are beautiful. Two, it demolishes the expectation that in order to love someone, care about someone, be a friend or play with someone, the other person has to look like you. It may seem trivial or silly, but it’s not. Our kids learn about race from us, their parents, first. And white parents have an obligation to teach our kids about race from a young age, so they won’t grow up to perpetuate the cycles of institutional racism and injustice that are eating away at our country from the inside. Little things like this matter, because you are creating an environment in your home that is inclusive to everyone, and invites discussion. There are also many age appropriate children’s books about race issues, from slavery to the Civil Rights Movement, to the Japanese internment camps during World War II, and desegregating public schools. Read them with your kids and answer their questions. And never tell them “that was a long time ago” or “all races are the same!” Because it wasn’t and they’re not. Instead, teach them how to see injustice and do the right thing.
Posted by Katie Nachman on Sunday, January 3, 2016
In an interview with The Root, Nachman also had this to say:
The main purpose I had in mind when making that video was to show how much parental attitudes reflect on children. It was really directed to white parents, both to educate and also put it out there that the other video is completely unacceptable. With the accompanying post, I hope that white parents begin to realize that it’s not enough to tell your kids that everyone is equal. That color does matter, and it matters a lot to a lot of people. That being a “nice person” does not preclude you from having biases, or perpetrating racism.
What I want is for white people to stop being so “nice,” and to start being actively anti-racist. One of the problems with educating people about white privilege is that white people get really upset and defensive about it, and they feel guilty and try to deny it instead of thinking of ways they can actively use that privilege for good. So for white families, just know that you do have privilege; no, you can’t get rid of it; no, you can’t deny it. What you can do is use it when needed, to educate other white people, or to stand up for injustice when you see it. And it is everywhere, so if you’re not seeing it, that’s a problem. Talk to your kids about race early on, be excruciatingly honest and set the example for them. You are their first teachers, and the ones they look up to the most.
Hopefully the mother in the previous video comes across Nachman’s and learns a thing or two or three.